The week I disconnected from Technology

Do you ever disconnect from technology? I mean, really disconnect. Like put the phone, computer, and tablet away and do not touch them? What about taking a social media break? Like, not going on social media for a day or a week?

My husband and I recently went on our honeymoon. Yes, I know we have been married for 14 years, and this does not make sense. When we married, we did not have the opportunity to go on a honeymoon, so 14 years later, our children are older, and we are sitting better with our finances; we scheduled a whole week away, just the two of us.

Which is also an excellent reset for our relationship. We rented two different AirBnBs. The first was this huge resort with 4 separate suites to choose from. We stayed in the turret suite, which had a fantastic balcony overlooking the water.

The resort had several things for us to do onsite like kayaking, rock picking, bonfire pits, a game room, and so much more. We decided to check out the lighthouses in the area and do some hiking. They also had a beautiful beachfront.

The second Airbnb was a remote cabin near Mackinac Island. This one was so cozy and warm feeling. They had a gorgeous pond on the property that we sat by one evening while staring at the stars.

Now we did not put our phones completely away, but we did only use them for directions, picture taking, and alarms. We both stayed off of social media, email, and unnecessary calls/texts.

It was truly grounding and refreshing to not be on social media or even use technology for an entire week. My husband and I reconnected in such a magical way.

We went on several hikes, saw lots of amazing sites, ate tons of delicious food, and were completely relaxed and just going with the flow each day I felt like this is exactly what I want my life to be EVERY DAY!

The amount of time we spent in nature was picturesque and great for the soul. As we walked through the Estivine Pines all I could think about was how the earth truly cares for itself. From the way the pine needles and leaves blanket the ground protecting the new growth and feeding it as it decomposes. The exposed tree roots from the water washing away part of the earth, yet the tree is still standing proud.

The different paths with hills, twists and turns reminded me that we each have our own path. You may be on the same path with certain people but you will not always be there together. This doesn't mean that you will not meet up again in the future, just that you are on different paths at this time.

The way that my husband and I reconnected was inspiring to both of us. After 3 kids and being together for 16 years sometimes you forget why you are together when you do not make time for each other. The reconnection was brought back home and we plan to keep up with our relationship much better than we have in the past.

If you are feeling disconnected from yourself or your partner take time to reconnect. Shut off that technology and get out in nature. A place where you have to truly look at your surroundings and take it all in. Notice the way the waves crash against the shore, the way the river carries itself, and the sounds in the trees. Then the way the sun feels on your skin, the smell o the fresh air, the way the earth feels under your feet, or how the water gives you a hug.

When you take time to really notice your surroundings and take them in it teaches you how to do the same thing with your partner, family, self, and life in general. It is similar to meditation. It clears your mind, body, and soul.

💖,

The Wellness Blondie

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